Are you really afraid?

                                                        Are you really afraid?

Are you afraid of losing?

Are you afraid of failure?

Are you afraid of adversities in life?

Are you afraid of struggles and hardships?

If your answer is yes, then unfortunately, your life is a miserable one. As one who believes that he will lose would definitely lose but once you start believing, you could win and defeat all the miseries, the victory would surely be yours. So here goes the path for bringing transformation in your life. The eternal way, that leads to a successful life away from all fears and despair. 

                                   
The first and foremost idea to bring about a transformation is- change your attitude. If you are not a winner it’s okay, but at least you could think like a winner.

Give away all your negative thoughts and fears of failure and losses. And think that life has given you challenges, so that you could grow and learn from them without getting afraid.

                                     

Your fearful thoughts only results in failure, downfall and defeats. And with such attitude you can do nothing in your life which is getting bad to worse. Your life would be a lost battle and your plight would be no better than a defeated gladiator crying on his miserable state. Therefore, it is “you” who is really responsible for all this mess. No need to curse your life for your present condition as it is you, the real culprit. So it’s a high time, to bring about a real change in you.

                                           

Have you ever seen an ant with a small sugar crystal in its mouth, falling again and again in its repeated attempts of climbing up the wall..??.                                                                       

And even after falling so many times, it continues climbing up the wall and finally, after long hours of struggle succeeds in its attempt.

                                          

What do you have to say about ant’s strong spirit and will-power? Have you ever thought of drawing a parallelism between ant’s life and yours after seeing such sight ample of times in your life? Your answer would be no for sure.

You know why?

It’s because you are afraid of failure and repeated attempts.

Many times in life you too keep on falling again and again. But my dear, life is not about losing or remaining succumbed to failure and defeat. It’s about a strong belief, a belief in your caliber and capacity to come back with a bang and win the lost battle with your high spirits of never giving up. It's about a strong will reminding you again and again that-

“I can do it, I will do it and I must do it.”

A strong belief in your work and capacity would definitely leads to an accomplishment of even the toughest goal of your life, you never thought of. Such positive attitude would result in a charismatic win, away from the dark clouds of failure.

Never ever give up just because you are afraid to move forward or you have failed on several occasions. In order to gain the level of confidence you want, you have to stop thinking what other people think about you. You are coming to learn, having the right attitude is half the battle won. So from today, throw away all your fears and phobias of losing, in order to lead a happy life.

Failure is not the end of life. If taken in a positive way, it is like a first break of dawn, after prolonged hours of darkness which gives us zeal to fight back with utmost guts. How would you cherish a win in your life if you never get defeated? Think and then answer.

                                      

Failure is a stepping stone to success, if you take it positively. It helps in eradicating mistakes made earlier and makes us aware of right kind of technique necessary for achieving success. Failure and success lies in your own instincts and depends very much on how you look upon situations that befall upon you in life. So always stay positive.

Usain Bolt would have never been world's fastest man if he would have been afraid of failure. He has taken all the negative feed-backs positively, to turn his life from normal to an extra-ordinary glorious one. So in other words, it all lies within you and in your mind, what you want out of your life. Another such great example is- Michael Phelps, who by overcoming his deepest fears and abnormality, accomplish a golden winning streak that is truly phenomenal.

                                          

If you really want to win and accomplish something great like these iconic figures, then overcome all your anxieties and fears. Believe me you, by adopting such kind of attitude you would surely experience a change never felt before.
                                           

I still remember, the great quote spoken by sensational tennis player Maria Sharapova, after winning a Grand slam: "Champions takes chances, pressure is privilege”.                 

You could surely learn a lesson for life from these great words spoken by her. 

Be a fighter, take chances and enjoy pressures which life loads on you and it is only then, you would emerge as a winner conquering the world, with your positivism. Life too is a complex sport juxtaposed with everyday wins and losses. If you play it wisely and strongly then you are the true champion but if you are afraid of failure, then you are the biggest loser. So, choice is yours.

No matter how many times you get defeated. But if you have the real strength and courage to bear all the adversities of life, then life would surely bless you with divine victory to be cherished life-long. A true fighter knows how to win a battle.

“One who wants to win knows how to win”. Make winning your habit and only then you would come out as a victor in this world of unending competition.

Never get afraid of failure. Failure is like an evil spirit, frightening you all the time but could be destroyed completely by your strong and divine spirit to win. So keep smiling and face every fear of your life strongly, for embracing victory in near future as life is all about winning, by conquering your deepest fears.

Author : Deepshikha Gupta