“Why it happens with me only?”

“Why it happens with me only?”

Life is juxtaposed with uncertainties. You never know what will happen next. And whenever something unexpected happens you always curse yourself by saying “oh god! Why it happens with me only”?

Although you are not the only one on the planet facing such situation but cursing your life and its present state has become your regular habit.

Whether you are late for an important office meeting or on another occasion, it’s your car that broke down in the mid of the journey, you keep playing this blame game of why it happens with you only.

You never miss any chance of putting a question mark on every inevitable moment happening in your lives. Whether you lose your loved ones or you give birth to a new life this question keep haunting your mind.

Each and every one of us is so entrapped in our world of expectations that we are not ready to except what life is waiting to offer us. We want the things in our own way. We want everything to be best and perfect. But my dear, this never happens.

Everything happens for a reason. You are here at this place and at this moment because the Almighty has decided some purpose for you. And if you are ready for his favors then except the life the way it is and do work hard to make it better.

Missing a train or flight is not a big deal. Watch the goodness in everything. Might be those 60 seconds of missing of your flight, train or bus become your life-saver and that very flight or train you missed might crash or accident on the other moment. You never know. Everything is destined and so is your destiny.

Stop saying that why it happens with you only. As most of the situation that you face in your life is created by you. It’s your very own reaction that makes your life good or bad. So choice is entirely yours my friend. Happiness or sorrow which path you select.

Marrying a fair or dark could never change your life. But your reaction for sure could make a huge difference. People in a way are responsible for their own destiny. So why not turn the life in your favor and extract the maximum out of it. You are here to laugh, live and love life so why to spoil the moment with your negative outlook.

Why it happens with you only because it is you who made it happen. The God up there is watching you. He is testing your patience and making you compatible with the hardships of life. Once you get accustomed to handling difficult part then life would be like a bed of flowers and you like a beautiful child sleeping there peacefully.

Love life the way it befalls upon you, except its gratitude and indifference equally to emerge as a winner. It’s okay even if some drink fell upon your expensive dress in a party. Its okay even if your best friend is caught cooking gossips about you or rather leaves you forever. There is good in everything. May be a better dress or a much better friend is waiting for you in future. So why waste time in cursing why it happens with you only.

Time and tide waits for none. An old saying for sure but it carries an essence of life. As time goes on, no one could ever rewind, forward or pause the cycle of time. But one thing that we can do is we could turn good into better and better into best. And only then success would be your guest my friend. Give it a try dear.

Never fear and think that those tiny little pimples on your face could affect the people opinion about you. But if you really want to make a difference in the million then be true to yourself and the world around you. Yes, you have the magic to make the heads turn towards you as you have that incredible confidence that many may lack.

Stop thinking and start believing. Begin by saying to yourself that-“it is so very good that it happened with me only as I 'm God’s that special child whom he wants to outshine among million.”

Author:
Deepshikha Gupta